Abstract
We all have internal models (or maps) that represent the world. But all models/maps distort. Given the complexity of the world and the psychological limits to our representational ability, we must do with simplified models that work in those situations that are most important for us. But since our wants and situations differ, so will our models.
When we encounter people with different models, we may try to convert them, but such conversion is unlikely if their models serve their wants and situations. Once we give up on conversion, we may look for those mutually beneficial accommodations that are possible even when models differ.